This may make you upset, but it’s the truth. I can’t guarantee that you are going to get your ex boyfriend back, I just can’t.
We are dealing with a male human being here and as much as I would love to be able to just make him desperate to get back with you, I don’t have the mind control powers that so many others in this “how to get your ex boyfriend back” community seem to have!
Seriously though, if you see any book, product or article that guarantees that it can get you your ex back 100% of the time you should stop and realize that you are probably about to look at something that was made up just to get you to buy it or read it. Ironically, a lot of the stuff out there that makes these ridiculous claims offer no value and leave you feeling taken advantage of.
Well, I intend to give you plenty of value and cover off on some new ideas and tactics that you can put to use right now! Actual strategies that allow you to get him back without looking desperate.
This major guide is aimed at giving you practical and actionable ideas to accomplish just that. This major Guide will be divided into 4 Major Parts, with many headings and an almost endless list of ideas and tactics you can put to use today!
So enjoy and reach out to me in the Comment Section if you have any questions about winning back your ex bf.
Part 1: Learning How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Without Looking Desperate
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I am not going to lie to you. I put a lot of work into this page (1 full month to be exact.) I read relationship books, I took notes on speeches that dating experts gave, I bought online products, I listened my friends tell me stories about what they did to reunite with their exes and tested out some of the things I learned.You are going to discover that this page is really long, in-depth but more importantly, it is going to help you to not only get your boyfriend back but to rediscover yourself in the process.
What We Will Be Covering in this Get Your Ex Back Guide
- A Step by Step System To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back
- 10 Helpful Tips To Get Him Running Back To You
- The Best Way To Contact Your Ex Bf
- Building Up Your Personal Confidence
- What To Do & What Not To Do to Make Him The Desperate One
- What To Do If Your Boyfriend Cheated On You
- How To Get Him Back If You Cheated On Him
- What To Do If He Has A Girlfriend
- How To Define Your Dating Goals
- How No Contact Fits Into Your Ex Back Strategy
- How To First Reach Out To Your Ex Boyfriend
- How You Go About Finally Having The First In Person Meeting
(Side Note: The system I have outlined on this page will work for teenagers in high school, married couples, people who haven’t seen each other in six months or two years and people who just got out of a long distance relationship. Basically, I am saying this system is universal!)
I thought the best way to go about the rest of this page would be to take an in-depth look at each step of the ex recovery process starting with your break up and what to do immediately after it.
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1. Don’t Be In Such a Hurry To Try And Get Him Back – It’s a Mistake!
I know. You are thinking to yourself, “look, I came here to find out the fastest way possible to get my ex boyfriend back where he belongs. I have to have him back”. But trust me, things are probably pretty crazy right now if you are just coming out of the breakup, so don’t make it worse by rushing through things, being overly impulsive , and doing or saying something you will regret later.2. Keep a Journal – It Can Help You Deal Better With the Onslaught of the Break Up Emotions.
Right now is your time. While your instincts are to obsess over your ex boyfriend and run through your mind over and over again as to what you did wrong, you have to stop thinking this way. So what I want you to do is start writing down your vision of the future and what you want. Don’t think so much about what happened in the past, but focus on what you are going to do to start healing.3. Avoid The Temptation To Text and Call Him
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4. Become The Ungettable Girl Because That is Truly What Your Ex Boyfriend Wants – Even If He Doesn’t Know It Yet!
The best way to optimize your chances of getting your ex bf back is to become Ungettable Girl. You want to increase your value in his eyes and also make it difficult for him to reach you, talk to you, and see you. This is just a small part of becoming the Ungettable Girl. It’s also about making yourself beautiful in his eyes from afar. He can see you, but now it is at a distance (through Snap chat, Facebook, etc). Slowly over time, your ex boyfriend will crave you and you will do things to ensure that he feels that craving every day by using little jealousy ploys and rumors and chance encounters. Your ex boyfriend loves nothing more than a good chase – so give him one.5. Understand How To Use Radio Silence To the Benefit of Your Ex Boyfriend
A lot of people think that when they implement Radio Silence (No contact) with their Ex Bf, that it is all about denying them or punishing them. But that is not it at all. It is really about allowing your Ex Boyfriend time to get over his anger and resentment and sort through his feelings. Make no mistake, bitterness is usually just hovering over a break up couple and your guy might be holding on to his fair share. So allow for some space. Once the ugly thoughts are out of his mind, the good thoughts and memories will eventually return as he will most assuredly start missing you, sometimes terribly.6. Be Creative in Your Efforts To Attract Your Ex Bf
Sometimes you have to get creative to get through your ex boyfriend’s thick skull. He may be one of those stubborn ones who figures that he will wait for you to make the first move. He might just need a stimulus. Read about it in in #7 below!7. Stay One Step Ahead of Your Ex Boyfriend
Consider picking up something that he doesn’t have. It’s called “Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro” and is probably one of the finest ebooks I have written on this topic of ex recovery. What better advantage is there than having a Companion Guide that helps you with just about any situation you might face.8. Don’t Try To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Oddly enough, many of my clients were successful in re-establishing contact with their ex boyfriends by simply not even trying. They didn’t do anything except move forward with their lives, focusing on bettering themselves personally and professionally. In a way, it is a form of what I call Passive No Contact or Passive Radio Silence. It works for some people. They figure that if their boyfriend dropped them, then so be it and instead of becoming dependent and addicted to their ex boyfriend, they choose to embrace other things in their life, doing those things they want to do and accomplish. Then as they focus on those things and have success, often times their ex boyfriends show up realizing they made a huge mistake letting their girlfriend go.9. Contact Me and Get Some Personalized Coaching
Sometimes the break up is so unique or troubling or complex, that it requires some specialized coaching. Or sometimes, people do better if they can talk to someone who is an expert at helping folks with their relationship troubles. Well, if you fall into that category, then you are in luck. All you need to do is reach out to me (i.e. click Coaching Services in my website’s Menu Section) and I am sure we can work out something!10. You Might Benefit From Joining My Private Facebook Group and/or Picking Up the Texting Bible
You know something is wrong if you are always crying or feeling bad about what has happened and you can quite get over it. You also know it can be frustrating when you can seem to figure out what to text or what to say to your ex bf. Well, the solution is you can join my Private Facebook Support Group and/or pick up your copy of the Texting Bible and get the emotional support and answers your need.
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Using The No Contact Rule To Lure Your Ex Boyfriend Back Into Your Arms!
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Ok, before we get into some of the soul searching you will want to do or discuss serious strategies you will want to consider, let’s talk a bit about the advantages of implementing the no contact rule. In Part 2 of this Guide, we are going to talk a lot more about this Principle.
But given its importance to your overall strategic aims, let’s discuss it’s role in the aftermath of a break up and how you can leverage it to your full advantage.
The No Contact Rule involves means you are not going to be texting your ex, talking, and especially not stalking your ex for about a full month. That is 30 days of essentially cutting your boyfriend out of your life. Remember, don’t dig into his life and don’t Google + or Facebook him.
If you don’t believe in the no contact rule then all I can say to you is that you had better start believing in it.
Do you remember earlier when I said I spent a lot of time researching this topic? Yea well, I only took a look at credible sources and every one and I mean EVERY SINGLE ONE recommends the no contact rule.
The Reasons Why No Contact Works on Your Boyfriend After a Break Up
Reason #1: Helping You Get Through the Pain of What Happened Between You and Your Ex Boyfriend
Right after a break up is when you are at your emotional peak and I don’t mean a good emotional peak, I am talking about anger, hate, basically everything that Yoda from Star Wars said to avoid. The no contact rule is going to give you time to work on yourself and calm down a little bit so you can think more rationally instead of emotionally.Reason #2: Helping Your Ex Boyfriend Realize You Have Value and Should Be Missed
Your ex boyfriend is probably going to start wondering why you aren’t talking to him and possibly may even begin to miss you.Reason #3: Learning To Ignore Your Ex Bf Works in Your Favor When he is Angry or Resentful
He will probably try to call or text you during this no contact period. It is important that you ignore him.You may hear from mutual friends that he called you a bad name/s or you may get the feeling that he hates you or wants nothing to do with you. Don’t worry, he is emotional and doesn’t mean it. Besides, after 30 days he will change his tune.
2 Special Cases Where You Have To Contact Your Ex Bf During No Contact
(Oh, just an FYI. I actually recently put together a massive book on the no contact rule. Check it out.)There are certain special cases where it is pretty much impossible to “ignore” your ex without seeming like a jerk. Here are those specific cases and what you should do if you find yourself in them.
Case 1: If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend
Your goal is to be a respectful roommate. Make sure any interactions you do have with the person are short, pleasant and to the point. Make sure you are as positive as possible.Case 2: If You and Your Boyfriend Have Kids Together
The last thing you want is to come off like a jerk. So, if you are in this situation make sure you keep your interactions to a minimum. Keep things short, simple and positive.Are you seeing a trend here?
What Caused The Breakup Between You and Your Ex Boyfriend?
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A Word On What Your Ex Boyfriend Probably Thinks
(Disclaimer- these views reflect the average male. Not every single male acts according to these guidelines.)Typically men don’t like to hurt your feelings. Thus, it is entirely possible that whatever reason they gave you for the breakup may not be completely true. I’ll admit that we men sometimes don’t even know why we want out of a relationship we just do.
However, I would say that the average man will leave a relationship when his is no longer getting what he needs. No I am not talking about sex here (although that can lead to problems for some men.) I am talking about admiration.
Men like to be admired for who they are. They love the newness of a relationship, want respect and like to see significant interest coming from females.
The best way I can describe this phenomenon would be like this:
You just started dating a new guy. You are in that honeymoon phase and everything is great. You are constantly complimenting him and giving him acknowledgment that he is wanted by you. Basically he loves hearing that you are interested in him. However, as time goes on things begin to change. You don’t compliment him as much because you don’t need to land him anymore. This is when the problems begin for him.
Another thing that you always hear guys saying is the fact that they are constantly nagged to death by their girlfriends.
Let me break this down for you…
Nagged To Death = A man looks at this as if his woman no longer is satisfied with what he has to offer or bring to the table. This doesn’t mean you can’t always express your feelings you just need to do a better job at mixing them in with love and admiration for him.
5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Broke Up With You?
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Getting dumped sucks and when your boyfriend decides he doesn’t want you anymore it just tears you apart from the inside out. I feel for you but don’t worry because we are going to take a look at your breakup and figure out the best way to approach things. Again, I want to reiterate this point- don’t assume that the reason your ex boyfriend gave you for why he chose to break up is really why he decided to let you go. This may sound a bit mean, but you are going to have to be completely honest with yourself and possibly look at things that may make you uncomfortable.
So, let’s get to it!
Here are some of the most common reasons for break ups:
1. Your ex boyfriend didn’t feel attracted to you anymore:
Ouch, I know this one must definitely sting to hear but it is a legitimate REAL reason for why he may have broken up with you. This is a common complaint among men who are dating someone who let themselves go a little bit in the relationship. You may have to put in some extra work here but trust me when I say that your physical appearance is easier to improve than your personality so don’t let his thoughts get to you.2. You ex boyfriend was getting bored with you:
This is another legitimate reason for a breakup. Unfortunately, in my personal opinion it says more about of his lack of character (unless you were really boring but I doubt that) than anything you actually did. Luckily, seeming boring is quite easy to fix!3. Your boyfriend’s emotional and sexual needs weren’t fulfilled by you:
A lot of times this can be happening but you won’t have any clue. Men aren’t the best communicators especially when it comes to breaking bad news. The last thing they want is to hurt you so they will just break up with you and give you some general reason. Luckily again this can be addressed!4. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t know what he wants:
In this case it really is the classic line “it’s not you, it’s me.” This one can be a little harder to come back from but trust me it can be done if you are smart about how you approach the situation.5. Your Boyfriend Was Cheating on You So He Decide To End It With You
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(If YOU cheated on your boyfriend then click this link for more information.)
(If HE cheated on you and you want him back click here for more information.)
One of the most popular questions I get around here is “how do I get my ex boyfriend back if I cheated on him/ if he cheated on me.” First things first, when it comes to cheating you need to understand one thing. Men and women cheat for very different reasons.
Men cheat because they are horny.
Women cheat because they aren’t feeling appreciated or other emotional reasons.
A lot of times what can happen is an ex can realize what they missed about you once they are settled in with their new person.
(If you were abused either physically or emotionally I recommend that you NEVER get back together with an ex.)
5 Reasons Why Girls End It With Their Boyfriends (But Now You Want Him Back)
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A huge misconception out there is that because you did the dumping it is a lot easier to get back with your ex. This is completely NOT TRUE. Trust me, your going to have to do a lot of work, perhaps more than the women who were dumped.
Here are some of the most common reasons why you may have broken up with your boyfriend:
1. You believed that the grass was greener and things could be better:
Everyone always thinks they could do better until they go out and realize that the relationship they had before wasn’t so bad.2. You mistakenly believed that your ex boyfriend betrayed or cheated on you:
Ah so you had a sneaking suspicion but were proven wrong. This is bad for you for a couple of reasons. First off, your boyfriend surely will feel worried about incurring your wrath whenever they want to do something. Secondly, it makes your ex feel like you never trusted them. Luckily, you can work on this and prove to him that you are no longer the person who suspects him every time he goes out (without you.)3. Your ex boyfriend cheated on you:
Honestly, this is tough for me to give advice on. You were faithful but he was not. I would say think very carefully if this person is worth getting in a relationship with again. Personally, cheating to me is a big no no and I don’t think I could forgive that so easily. But hey, that’s me.4. You don’t feel attracted to your boyfriend anymore:
They let themselves go huh? You were too familiar with them and it just got old or boring? Make sure that you are very serious about wanting to get back with this person before you keep reading.5. There was a big fight with him and a break up occurred:
A while back I was dating someone and it always seemed that we would fight over the silliest things. Now, I like to think that I am generally a calm person but for whatever reason my girlfriend and I would always fight. So, I went to the most trusted of friends for advice, my dad. He explained to me that a relationship is like a bank account. Every time you have a good experience or something of that nature you are putting money into the account. However, every time you have an argument or a fight you are taking money out of the account. The key thing here is to have more green deposits than red withdrawals in your relationship bank account.(If you were abused either physically or emotionally I recommend that you NEVER get back together with an ex.)
Defining Your Goals Helps You With Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back
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At one time you were dating this person. Maybe it was serious, maybe it was casual. Whatever the facts you need to accept that your old relationship is dead. Not only that but you want it to stay dead. A lot of times women make the mistake of picking up right where they left off whenever they do get their ex back.
Why in the world would they want that? Your old relationship had problems or failed right? So, the last thing you want to do is resume that doomed relationship.
The big goal that you should strive for is to create a relationship with your ex boyfriend that is not only new but better.
I am in to helping women who want a lasting relationship with their boyfriends. This may sound goofy but I like those women who so strongly believe that they are going to be together with their exes for good that they are willing to try anything.
To a casual observer that may sound really risky but personally I love women with that belief that after they get their boyfriend back they will be with him forever. Those are the type of women who work really hard to create that NEW and BETTER relationship.
So, the big take away that I want you to get from this section is that your ultimate goal assuming this process works for you is that you are discarding your old relationship and creating a new one that is stronger.
Having A Legitimate Reason For Getting Back Together
(For a more in-depth look at legitimate reasons for getting back together please visit this page.)If you can’t already tell I truly do enjoy helping women strategize on how to get their ex boyfriends back. However, one thing that I have neglected to mention so far is that there are certain women (not you) that don’t have legitimate reasons for wanting to get back together with their boyfriends.
As a general rule it is good to have a legitimate reason for getting back together with your significant other. Here are some of the reasons that ARE NOT ACCEPTABLE.
- Saying you will die without him.
- That he’s your whole life.
- You’ll never find someone better.
- Your not happy alone.
- It will be different next time.
Here are a few reasons that ARE ACCEPTABLE.
- The breakup was a rash decision.
- You had a huge fight that caused the breakup.
- You were happy almost all of the time you were together.
- Both of you want the same things out of a life together.
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